There is always a need to be wise and to be good mannered

However, here is an example of the very opposite:

http://en.people.cn/n3/2017/0819/c90000-9257378.html

If you find infractions by the Chinese are you going to settle it with an Asian Land War?

You will have to settle it by going to a recognized world body, e.g. WTO or some such like.

This kind of hegemonic belligerency is going to be utterly counterproductive and will, in the end, bring disrepute upon it-that-cannot-be-named.